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Despite the prevalence of the internet, many people still fall prey to unfortunate rumours. Whether its not eating chocolate when you have pimples, or using a harsh cleanser so your face is really clean - there are a million and one beauty myths out there. But how true are they? I went on a mission to find out.

CHOCOLATE CAUSES PIMPLES
I’ve been told time and time again that my chocolate habit is the reason to blame for my acne. Not only is this far from the truth, but it also creates unnecessary stress for people already dealing with this problem. I mean, our face is already bad enough, and you’re depriving me of chocolate, too? 

Studies have found that chocolate has little effect on pimples, with the most famous one being conducted by renowned Dermatologist Dr. Albert Kligman. The doctor led an experiment where he fed two groups of teenagers chocolate, with one group being fed a placebo - a chocolate bar that tasted just like chocolate, but without cocoa. At the end of the experiment, the people who ate “real” chocolate did not have more pimples compared to people who ate the fake cocoa bar.

However, many still believe in this old wives tale, especially in Singapore. In Traditional Chinese Medicine, eating heaty foods causes the body to react in ways to expel heat; And as chocolate is a food that is considered heaty in nature, cocoa bars are blamed for causing pimples.

But thankfully for chocolate lovers like me, science has shown that this is indeed untrue. Instead, pimples are mainly caused by bacteria and an over-active sebum gland, which can be triggered through a multitude of factors: Not just by chocolate.

MAKEUP MAKES YOUR SKIN WORSE
There seems to be a united consensus that makeup ruins the condition of your skin. A lot of people believe that makeup acts like a thick layer of suffocation for your pores, which is why brands are starting to promote mineral makeup that supposedly lets your skin “breathe”.

The problem with this misconception is: Makeup is not the one to blame, it is the improper removal of makeup that is the cause. When you don’t remove your makeup properly, the leftover bits mix with oil and dirt, causing a multitude of skin problems ranging from acne to lacklustre skin.

To make sure that I remove my makeup thoroughly, I often pick oil removers such as Senka’s Perfect Oil for a complete removal of heavy-duty makeup. Or if I’m lazy, I opt for micellar solutions such as Bioderma’s H2O Micelle Solution (now available in an easy to use pump!).

YOUR PORES CAN OPEN AND CLOSE
Contrary to popular belief, steaming your pores will not make them open. Pore size is largely determined by genetics, or skin conditions such as acne; Your pores cannot “open” or “close” through changes in temperature. Beauticians often steam your face before a facial as heat softens sebum, which is why even if your face has turned “cold” before an extraction, your pimples and blackheads can still be removed with relative ease as the sebum is already soft. 

The same principle applies to “shrinking” pores with a bout of cold steam. Although you may believe that it works, it just simply not true. Pores look smaller after a facial because they are clean and have no gunk to make them look bigger. Think about it: Have you noticed your pore size ‘shrinking’ when you clean your face with ice-cold water?
 

Bioderma H2O is available from all Guardian and Nishino stores, Robinsons Orchard, Raffles City and JEM, and John Little Marina Square and Plaza Singapura. For more information, visit www.bioderma.com and follow the brand on Facebook.

Senka Perfect Oil, $16.90, is available at selected Watsons stores. For more information, visit and follow the brand on Facebook.

A new website called Hotelied.com offers customers discounts based on their number of friends and followers on social networks.

To access these advantages, users can log in with their Facebook, Twitter, Google+, Instagram and/or LinkedIn accounts when creating their profile. Social networkers are offered discounts proportional to their online influence: A higher number of followers, friends and subscribers means a bigger discount (up to 50 percent off).

Loyalty is also rewarded. Users can link their Hotelied account with their hotel rewards memberships (Accor, Hyatt, Hilton, IHG, Marriott and Starwood) and with four frequent flyer programs (British Airways, TrueBlue, Lufthansa and Virgin). 

For the time being, the platform only searches hotels in certain cities in the US (New York, Los Angeles, Miami, Portland) and Israel (Tel Aviv). New cities are due to be added in the future.

With its new concept, Hotelied hopes to leverage the viral power of social networks to offer hotels cost-effective advertising through online influencers, who in turn enjoy perks and discounts. -- AFP RELAXNEWS

For more information, visit www.hotelied.com. 

Go all creepy cute on your cuticles!

Word association: “Halloween”, go! Cotton candy clouds, pumpkin pie, American Horror Story, bloody baubles … and a ton of terrifying manis and pedis!

And yes, I know what you’re thinking. Sophisticated office ladies out there cowed by the prospect of looking clownish, don’t dismiss #HalloweenNails out of hand: With careful curation and a little elbow grease, you can allude to All Hallows’ Eve without looking harrowing yourself.

That said, the year-end spookfest is such an awesome period for polish addicts, particularly for those with time on their hands. All hands on deck? See these creepy-cool images for some instant Insta-inspiration, and have fun putting your talons to good use!

Oh, and if you’re especially excited about your new nail art, feel free to show us what you’ve got by following us on Instagram; tag photos of your “polished” work with the hashtag #HWPNails and we’ll repost the ones we like. Get on it, stat!

#1. Now this ruby-red stain is the very definition of eternal elegance ... like a vampire with blood on her hands, maybe? A really great crimson colour is the beauty equivalent of an LBD or a pair of black pumps – a foolproof fall-back for an instant pick-me-up.

Consider investing in Ruby Necklace, a standout shade from Ettusais’ excellent new plethora of hot holiday hues. Offered in a gleaming gel formula, this gorgeous gloss glides on like a dream, and will last you through Halloween’s horror night and beyond.

 

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#2. An orange-and-black combo can come off as completely contrived for Halloween, but this look nails it in my books. The devil’s in the details, so to speak: Note the slinky cat silhouette, subtle specks of gold and the tricky tendrils of the “tree”? Nicely done.

 

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#3. Shake things up a little with this venomous varnish in a slithery viper green. The stiletto nails are very Gaga: Not a bad thing at all, coming from a devoted Little Monster like myself. What really does me in is the adorable bear skeleton embellishment – beary cute indeed!

 

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#4. Nothing’s screaming Halloween in this one, but the pearlescent pigments and tiny twinkly stars are so very pretty, it’s well, scary.

 

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#5. There’s something strangely beguiling about the lava lamp-like blobs, don’t you think? The swirls sort of harken at the mask of Spiderman’s arch-nemesis Villain, too, so at least there’s a tangential relation to the holiday at hand … or maybe I’m just a colossal comic book nerd at heart.

 

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#6. Ooh, purple-and-black ombre in a high-shine finish. Deliciously decadent, like charbroiled eggplant. (Sorry, stomach’s rumbling.)

 

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#7. From eggplant to the finest glass of red ... Love, love, love the intoxicating drama of a burgundy lacquer on pointy nails.

Get your bloodlust going with Make Up Store’s spellbinding new polish in Elisabeth, which has a really opulent oily iridescence – like the slick surface of an evil empress’s caldron.

 

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#8. Saved the worst for last. Good grief, ghoulish, yes. Think stiletto nails were scary? Absolutely rainbows and unicorns compared to these pus-like boils and bumps.

Beauty powers-that-be, please, please don’t make #BubbleNails a thing. Fingers crossed!

 

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Ettusais Antique Color Nail Color Collection in Ruby Necklace, $10, is available at all Ettusais stores. For more information, visit www.ettusais.com.sg and follow the brand on Facebook.

Make Up Store Nail Polish in Elisabeth, $22, is available at all Make Up Store counters. For more information, visit www.makeupstore.se and follow Make Up Store Singapore on Facebook.

WHAT IT IS
The Columbia Omni Freeze Degree II Short Sleeve Tee is a soft and lightweight sports tee embedded with tiny blue rings that contain a special cooling polymer. When you perspire, the polymer swells – like goosebumps – and that cools you down.

WHAT'S COOL
1 The T-shirt felt light and snug against my skin, and absorbed sweat well during my indoor and outdoor runs. It was easily the most comfortable running T-shirt I have ever worn.

2 The cooling effect really worked! About five minutes into my outdoor run, when I had worked up a sweat, I felt cooler, especially on my back, than when I wore my regular or moisture-wicking tees.

3 The tee was a tad damp after my half-hour run, but it dried quickly – in five minutes – so I did not feel sticky like I normally do after working out.

WHAT COULD HAVE BEEN BETTER
1 After about 20 minutes of running, the cooling effect eased off and did not remain effective enough through my entire run.

2 The blue cooling rings and my sweat stains were visible on the T-shirt, but disappeared fairly quickly – five minutes after my run.

VERDICT
It kept me comfortably cool for most of my workout, and it was quick to dry, so I did not feel damp and sticky after.

Columbia Omni Freeze Degree II Short Sleeve Tee, $59.90, from World of Outdoors

This article was originally published in Simply Her October 2014.

All product and pricing information was correct at the time of the magazine's publication. We advise readers to check with the stores for the latest availability and pricing information.

While lighter formulas may have done the trick over the summer, the cooler seasons may call for a little more coverage. But to each her own when it comes to foundation.

Imitation skin

Lately, several cosmetics brands have set out to develop ultra long-lasting liquid foundations that mimic the appearance of skin as closely as possible. The challenge, of course, lies in striking a balance between effective coverage and lightweight texture. Their latest secret weapon? Volatile oils combined with pure pigments that transform on contact with the skin for a natural finish. These formulas also include moisturizing ingredients to keep the skin soft and hydrated all day long. (Phyto-Teint Expert by Sisley).

Light reflectors

Another major trend this season, light-reflecting foundations act like camera filters that blur out imperfections. The concept is simple: the products are formulated with reflective micro-particles, which diffuse light in multiple directions to create the illusion of a flawless complexion. (Photo Filter Foundation by Smashbox). 

Newcomer

This year, the most noteworthy newcomer on the makeup scene is definitely Gucci, which just launched its very first cosmetics collection. Of course, the Italian luxury brand thought of everything, especially foundation. Available in seven shades, the brand's Lustrous Glow Foundation promises a delicate and luminous finish (Lustrous Glow Foundation, Gucci Face).

Heavy-duty coverage

For those looking for more serious coverage, the American brand NYX offers its Invincible Fullest Coverage Foundation. With its high pigment content and soft texture, this is the foundation for the most challenging cover ups that may come your way this winter. (Invincible Fullest Coverage Foundation by NYX, $12).

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Skinny jeans have reigned supreme for a number of years now, but it is always good to have other options.

A pair of flared jeans is a nice change and great for days when you want a little less restricted movement.

When it comes to flared jeans, a clean dark wash like this pair from Gap (photo 1, $80, from 03-65 Plaza Singapura) is always a safe option, though lighter and more distressed options are fun and give off a different vibe.

What is more important to consider is the length and rise. The hem of the jeans should not be too short or too long - both sure-fire ways to make your legs look short or stumpy.

Take it to a tailor to get hemmed, and take along the pair of shoes you are likely to wear with it so the hem length sits just right.

Low-heeled ankle boots such as these from Bershka (photo 2, $79.90, from B2-09 Ion Orchard) are a great footwear choice, as are pointy-toed heels or flats. Platform heels may look a bit too 1970s, unless you are deliberately going for a hippy look.

The rise of the flare jeans should be regular or slightly high-waisted to emphasise the long, lean line. Anything too low runs the risk of looking dated, bringing up images of the low-slung hip huggers of the early 2000s.

For your top, pick something slightly cropped for balance, such as this cosy knit sweater from H&M (photo 3, $39.90, from Orchard Building, 1 Grange Road).

Or you can pick a blousy top like this printed Zara number (photo 4, $79.90, from B2-03 Ion Orchard) and tuck it in so the waist can still be seen.

For a look that is more smart casual, pair your flared jeans with a black blazer such as this one from A.L.C. (photo 5, £209 or S$433, from www.theoutnet.com). Even over a simple T-shirt, the blazer adds a nice bit of polish and elevates the whole look.

This article was first run in The Straits Times newspaper on October 10, 2014. For similar stories, go to sph.straitstimes.com/premium/singapore. You will not be able to access the Premium section of The Straits Times website unless you are already a subscriber.

This happens every Autumn Winter season. Designers take advantage of the colder weather and show gorgeous boots that steal our hearts on the runway. But reality hits when we realise there’s no way we can wear those thigh or knee-high boots from Alexander Wang, Gucci, Valentino and more in Singapore’s very tropical weather without breaking out in sweat and frankly looking a bit silly.

Well, not all boots are unsuitable for the climate we live in – short boots and booties (nothing higher than the calf) are more apt for our weather. Meet our line up of 20 chic boots; from the grungy to whimsical, you will find a perfect pair for your style.

Alkaff Mansion Ristorante hardly needs an introduction. Housed in a stately, Tudor-style bungalow, it's, for many years, been a favourite of those on romantic dates, had borne witness to many a wedding ceremony (a fully air-conditioned and carpeted Grand Marquee serves that purpose) and earned a steady following with a consistent, if not particularly exciting, menu.

The addition of new executive chef Simone Depalmas could then, be seen as a means for the Italian mainstay to add a rejuvenating jolt to its food. And a good move it was too. A Sardinian native, chef Simone's hometown influence on the menu comes in the form of plenty seafood items, lots of clean, fresh flavours, and naturally, Italy-imported ingredients – a welcomed change to the typical Italian cuisine we've been accustomed to, and perhaps a sign of the burgeoning popularity of the lighter Sardinian cuisine in Singapore. 

Must-tries: We're fans of octopus, so the Fresh Octopus Carpaccio ($24, above) was an obvious favourite. But even if you're not partial to it, the slivers of lightly-steamed and tender Sardinian octopus dressed in aged balsamic reduction and served with frisee salad, cherry tomatoes and orange wedges makes for a lovely, mellow start to the meal. 

It also paves the way for other seafood stunners, like the show-stopping Oven Baked Sea Bass in Salt (from $48 for 600g), rolled out to your tableside encased in salt, and then flambeed, cracked open and deboned by chef Simone himself. The fish is served as simply as you can possibly imagine, with just a sprinkling of black pepper, a drizzle of extra virgin olive oil and a squeeze of lemon to retain all of its ocean-sweet freshness, and it is sublime. The Seafood Platter ($68) of tiger prawns, tuna tartare, sea bass carpaccio, octopus salad and lobster chunks is an easy crowd-pleaser, but next to the sea bass, it comes across lacking finesse. 

Skip: No obvious dislikes here, but the Slow Cooked Sardinian Style Suckling Pig ($46), though getting points for its perfectly crispy skin and moist flesh, is still a little too rich for our liking. 

Alkaff Mansion Ristorante is located at 10 Telok Blangah Green. For more information, visit www.alkaff.com.sg or call tel: 6510-3068.

"During the 10 years that my husband, Jeff*, and I were together, I was a stay-at-home mother to our two children. I'm not highly educated and was dependent on Jeff, who loved being my 'hero'. I had little savings of my own, but I was contented. We weren't rich, but neither were we poor. Jeff worked in sales. Three years ago, he told me that he'd invested in a business overseas. Should it take off, he would be making more money than before. But he would need to travel more often, starting that weekend, to supervise the business. I didn't question him – I was happy and excited about our future.

LONG-DISTANCE LOVE
Jeff's regular trips overseas went on for about two years. For the first few months, he only spent weekends there, coming home to the family on Sunday nights. But later, he started spending weekdays overseas too, sometimes almost the entire week. He said the project was taking shape and he needed to be on site. 'Once my business takes off, I will buy us a bigger house and hire a maid to help you with the household chores,' he promised.

I didn't suspect a thing. Jeff never ignored me or the kids when he was home, no matter how tired he was. Our sex life wasn't affected either – we would get intimate each time he came home. I felt like our marriage was at its strongest.

EMPTY PROMISES
Early last year, Jeff told me that he was quitting his sales job to concentrate on the business full-time. He also suggested selling our four-room HDB flat, to upgrade to a bigger one. I had my reservations at first, but Jeff brushed my worries aside. We found a buyer for our flat two months later, but had difficulty finding the ideal new home. I became worried because we had to vacate our flat in a month, but had yet to find a new place to live. Jeff promised to continue searching.

In the meantime, he asked that I transfer my share of the proceeds from the sale of our flat – a few hundred thousand – to his bank account so that he could immediately pay the downpayment fee on our new place. I knew nothing about housing transactions, so I did as he asked. After all, we were a married couple – so my money was also his money, I thought.

DISAPPEARING ACT
Shortly after that, Jeff travelled overseas for a week. He said that when he returned, we could move into our new home. That day was the last time I saw my husband.

When he didn't call or return home after a week, I worried that something had happened to him. When I rang his mobile phone, I was shocked to discover that the line had been disconnected. I panicked and started calling up his family and friends, but nobody knew where he was. Some of them were surprised to hear that he had a business overseas – Jeff had never told them about it. Fearing the worst, I cried myself to sleep every night for six months. I considered making a police report but talked myself out of it – what if I reported him missing and he came home eventually?

To make things worse, the children and I had to move out of our flat, with nothing but the clothes on our backs and whatever else I could squeeze into two big suitcases. I had to leave my furniture and appliances behind – some were bought over by the flat's new owners; I asked them to give or throw away the rest. For about a month, my children and I slept in a tent along the beach before I finally found the courage to ask a friend for help. She allowed us to stay with her in her tiny apartment while I figured out my next move.

MOVING ON
It's been a year since Jeff left us in the lurch. My children and I are now staying in a small rented room. To make ends meet, I bake and sell cakes and sweet snacks. I'm struggling to feed my children and pay the rent, but I'm grateful that my landlord isn't chasing me for it – she understands my situation and pities me. Sometimes, my friend gives me some money to help me pay my bills.

I'm constantly stressed and depressed over my bad luck. But I refuse to let my kids be affected by my tears. I constantly keep them occupied so that they won't have time to think about their father. I'm considering seeking help from the Government, but I don't know how to go about it. I'm not fussy – I'll do any decent, legal job as long as my children can still go to school and have a good education. I'm glad that my young ones have stopped asking about their father. I, too, have stopped crying over him. He just isn't worth my tears.

A chance meeting with an old friend of Jeff's some months back gave me the answers I had been searching for. It seemed my 'perfect' husband had been unfaithful to me all this while. His regular visits overseas were to be with his mistress. This friend had known about his affair all along, but didn't say anything to me as he didn't want to get involved.

He told me that Jeff now had many mistresses and was living it up overseas. No doubt with my share of the money from our flat, I thought. I was livid, yet felt resigned to my fate. I considered finding Jeff to confront him and beg him to come home. But I was also scared that he would reject me, so I gave up on the idea.

Jeff and I are still legally married. I don't think I'll start proceedings for a divorce unless he returns home and asks me for one. As much as I hate him for what he's done, there's also a part of me that still loves him... I still harbour a sliver of hope that he will return to me one day."

*Names have been changed.

This article was originally published in Simply Her October 2013.

Large “pot holes” are quite a hassle to deal with. You can’t simply cover them up with concealers, and they can be quite difficult to “shrink”. The trick to a poreless appearance requires quite a bit of work, but if you follow these steps well, you might be looking like a cover girl in no time.

STEP ONE: KEEP CLEAN
Although pore size is largely determined by genes (and pimples), there are ways to fake smaller-looking pores. The first step is to ensure that your pores are as small as they can be - by making them clean and free of gunk.

Blackheads and whiteheads “expand” the inside of a pore. By clearing your pores of them, they will inevitably have a smaller appearance. I’ve written on how to get rid of clogged pores, but if you’re lazy and just want a quick fix, you can try Peter Thomas Roth’s Pumpkin Enzyme Mask.

The pumpkin mask uses fruit enzymes and Alpha hydroxy Acids (AHA) to decongest pores and remove dead skin cells: Cleaning your skin and making it easier for extractions. And due to its cooling gel texture, it works as a great alternative to clay masks, which can be quite abrasive and drying.

STEP TWO: COVER UP THE PORES
It is without a doubt that a good primer goes a long way. A primer works to set your makeup and make it go the distance, but great primers can mask the appearance of large pores too.

My go-to favourite is Smashbox’s original primer. The lightweight gel blends effortlessly into my skin, filling up any uneven surfaces (or pore gaps). The brand has an entire range of primers for different skin types and concerns, but in my opinion, the original is still second to none.

Alternatively, if you’re just looking for a targeted primer for your pores, Benefit’s Porefessional is famous for this very purpose. The silky texture works to mask the appearance of large pores, while priming the skin in the process. What’s more, its oil-free formula is perfect for Singapore’s humidity.

STEP THREE: BLUR IT OUT
Instead of piling on layers of concealer or foundation to hide your pores, the trick is to choose a product that will help you diffuse its appearance. A hot makeup trend, “light diffusing” foundations are becoming increasingly popular in Asia as its formulas are great for faking great skin. Containing reflective micro particles, these foundations work to refract light when it touches your face, giving you the illusion of a flawless (and poreless) complexion. The only gripe I have about this awesome invention is that most formulas aren’t the most budget-friendly.

For days when my pores are out of control, I indulge in Chanel’s Perfection Lumiere Velvet. The extremely light texture glides onto the skin, blurring out all forms of imperfections, pores included. The foundation dries to a velvety finish, which is great for days when I want to create a dewy complexion.

But if you prefer something that goes the distance, Laura Mercier’s Smooth Finish Flawless Fluide is another great option for a pore-free finish. The brand’s newest foundation uses reflective waters to mask imperfections, and it’s extremely fine texture promises to give you 12-hours worth of wear.

With these tips, you might be well on your way to a fresh and poreless complexion in no time.
 

Benefit the POREfessional, $49, is available at all Benefit counters and Sephora stores. For more information, visit www.benefitcosmetics.com and follow the brand on Facebook.

Chanel Perfection Lumiere Velvet, $78, is available at Chanel Fragrance and Beauty Boutiques and Chanel Beauty Counters. For more information, visit www.chanel.com/fragrance-beauty and follow the brand onFacebook, Twitter, and YouTube.

Laura Mercier Smooth Finish Flawless Fluide, $75, is available at all Laura Mercier counters. For more information, visit www.lauramercier.com and follow the brand on Facebook.

Peter Thomas Roth Pumpkin Enzyme Mask is available at all Sephora stores. For more information, visit www.peterthomasroth.com.sg and follow the brand on Facebook.

Smashbox Photofinish Foundation Primer, $65, is available at all Sephora stores. For more information, visit www.smashbox.com or www.sephora-sea.com and follow Sephora on Facebook.

Ah, caffeine. I’ll be the first to admit that a jolt of java is fundamental to being functional at work. Alas, coffee critics have pointed to a whole latte problems associated with overindulgence; some evidence exists to suggest that caffeine consumption may cause dehydration, dull skin and puffy, inflamed eyes.

As it turns out, there’s hope yet. When applied topically, caffeine’s ability to constrict blood vessels actually helps to placate puffiness, making the stimulant superb for re-energising saggy skin. Want proof? Look out for caffeine on the labels of your depuffing eye creams; it’ll be there.

Having been on a DIY roll these past weekend, I’m pleased as punch to say I may have hit upon a miracle beauty worker – and coffee’s of the essence! This scrub avails itself of caffeine’s aforementioned astringent properties for a skin-firming effect that’s quite remarkable indeed: At a post-mask get-together, my group of girlfriends actually asked me point blank if I had treated myself to a little nip and tuck. (I hadn't.)

Wee caveat: Individual results vary, of course, but there’s no harm giving this a shot, especially if you have leftover coffee grounds lying about in the morning. Here’s how:  

STEP 1. Grab a generous handful of wet coffee grounds (any blend will do!) and chuck it in a clean bowl.

STEP 2. Now for the genius bit. Add about a teaspoon of your favourite facial oil to the bowl and stir it into the mix until you get a sticky slurry that’s the consistency of oatmeal. 

What oil to use? Product recommendation-wise, I’m obsessed with Origins’ new Plantscription Youth-renewing Face Oil, a carefully calibrated concoction of botanical blends – think anti-inflammatory argan, evening primrose and exotic African anogeissus tree extracts – designed to quench and plumpen parched skin with the bonus of being skin-tinglingly sensuous to the touch, too, like liquid cashmere caressing your face. This multi-purpose elixir can be applied as is, after your serum and before your moisturiser, or incorporated into novel recipes like this one.

STEP 3. Back to the scrub at hand. Next, apply the coffee-and-oil mask on damp, post-shower skin, massaging the mixture into your face and decolletage, avoiding the delicate eye area. Feel free to use moistened cotton pads to buff it in for an exfoliating boost.

STEP 4. Kick off your kitten heels, relax for 10 minutes, then splash off with warm water. Pat dry, then apply a drop or two of the same facial oil to seal in all the goodness. Follow up with your usual skincare regime and you’re good to go.

Now, I’ve been a fervent fan of a fatty face diet for as long as I can remember, so this mask is perfect for getting the most mileage out of my oils. Even better, you can make this express exfoliator in bigger batches and stash in a sealed tub in the fridge for use on an especially warm day. Super refreshing!

Or go one step further and try a coffee scrub for a miraculously “slimmer” waist – actually the result of caffeine draining off water retention, but that quibble’s just counting (coffee) beans. Hewing to the same coffee-and-facial-oil recipe, break an extra handful of vitamin E capsules into the moist mush for bulk, then use a loofah to scour away.

Have fun experimenting, and let me know if this works for you as brilliantly as it did for me!

Origins Plantscription Youth-renewing face oil, $86 for 30 ml, is available at all Origins stores. For more information, visit www.origins.com.sg and follow Origins Singapore on Facebook.

Gisele Bündchen goes surfing for Chanel No. 5. ©Chanel

A few months ago, Chanel set the web abuzz by announcing the latest No. 5 spokesmodel. The long wait is now over, as the brand has revealed two photos and a teaser from Gisele Bündchen's latest advertising film.

Titled "The One That I Want," the new Chanel No. 5 campaign is directed by filmmaker Baz Luhrmann (The Great Gatsby), who previously shot Nicole Kidman in a celebrated advertising film for the perfume in 2004.

Chanel has revealed a sneak peek at the new No. 5 campaign featuring Gisele Bündchen. ©Chanel

In the two photos revealed on October 13, 2014, Gisele Bündchen wears a swimsuit and carries a branded surfboard under her arm, indicating that the Chanel woman has picked up surfing in 2014. The idea seems to be in line with the vision of Gabrielle Chanel, who sought to liberate women from the confines of rigid clothes, allowing them to be as comfortable playing sports as they are in high society.

The brand also shared a 15-second teaser for the campaign film, which will be released in its entirety on October 15, 2014. To get to know this new character played by the supermodel, fans will have to keep waiting for a few more days. - AFP RELAXNEWS

Watch the teaser below:

The men's product market is experiencing something of a boom, especially in Asia, where consumer group Kantar Worldpanel is reporting 7% sales growth in China for male grooming products.

There are few trends when it comes to men's skincare products: the main news is that increasing numbers of men are seeking out their own options when it comes to taking care of their face and body, and there are plenty of brands seeking to get in on the action around the world.

Reflecting this growth, this summer Penhaligon's launched its first men's grooming line, Bayolea, which features the brand's classic scent across a line of products including traditional shaving soaps, creams and balms. It's the first time Penhaligon's has offered men's skincare products, including a facial wash, a soothing gel and a cleanser.

Kiehl's has also recently added to its men's line-up with the Men's Oil Eliminator 24 Hour Anti-Shine Moisturizer and Refreshing Shine Control Toner ($27), which launched this summer.

Ren is also a great choice for unisex products including the Flash Rinse 1 Minute Facial (€38), which launced in September. Packed with water-activated Vitamin C, the gel also contains contains boswellic acid and magnesium and is designed to be applied to the face once ever three days to brighten your complexion and reduce UV damage. Ren also stocks a Tamanu High Glide Shaving Oil and a Multi-Tasking After Shave Balm which are both specifically designed for men. 

As part of the wider trend for modern classics, many men are going back to the traditional bar of soap as a key part of their daily ablutions. Tellingly, this fall, Baxter of California has launched an Exfoliatating Body Bar ($16) scented with cedarwood and oakmoss, and pumice, jojoba meal and crushed olive seeds providing the aforementioned exfoliation. 

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I’m sure I’m not the only one who faces this dilemma whenever I pack for a vacation or a work trip. So do I bring my “it” bag that wears a ton when it’s empty and is prone to scratches or do I settle for a bag that I know can undergo the stress of travelling but doesn’t exactly score high in the style department?

Well, Hong Kong based label Mischa’s line of bags designed for the globetrotter’s lifestyle is the solution to your packing woes. Founder Michelle Lai first debuted Mischa with hand crafted clutches made from vintage Japanese kimono material. This mix of East meets West won the brand a cult following but fans started requesting Lai for bags that the busy active women could throw everything they need for work, play and the gym in.

A range of luggage was created in 2010 to cater to the Mischa fans’ wishlist and the Travel Series’ totes and accessories have become travel essentials for the smart jetsetting women. Here’s why:

Mischa's Jet Set tote (left) and Overnighter (right) are ideal for travelling anywhere in the world

Mischa bags are lightweight
Even the larger styles like the Jet Set tote or Overnighter duffle, weigh almost nothing so you can happily throw in your laptop and that hefty novel along with all your travel essentials without giving your shoulders much grief when you commute.

Mischa bags can take a beating
The coated canvas with calf leather trims that the Mischa pieces are made from are silk-screen printed and finished with a weatherproof coating. So you don’t have to worry if you are ever caught in the rain anywhere in the world. Plus, the totes make for great beach bags too!

Autumn Winter 2014's collection sees a new camo twist on the hexagon motif. Centre: CDG Pouch in Camouflage Orchid, $180

Mischa bags are chic
In the same way you would with classic arm candy, you can spot a Mischa bag straightaway by the iconic interlocking hexagon print. Inspired by the sea tortoise’s shell, the motif symbolises longevity and timelessness and translates to the timeless appeal of the Travel Series. This season, Lai experiments with camouflage and incorporates the unlikely print with the hexagon motif for a youthful feel.

The exclusive Kapok x Mischa Jet Set tote in Kapok's colourways with the store's insignia embossed

Mischa bags are cool
Like every “hip” brand out there, the label has chalked up a few noteworthy collaborations. For Spring Summer 2014, Mischa joined forces with Lane Crawford to launch a limited edition collection and this season, the label collaborates again with cool multi-label store Kapok for a special Kapok x Mischa Jet Set tote.

The Kapok x Mischa Jet Set tote retails for $289 at Kapok at the National Design Center, 111 Middle Road. Find Mischa at Kapok at the National Design Center; Kapok Tools at Tangs Orchard; Soon Lee at 73 Haji Lane; Cumulus at #02-14 Wheelock Place. For more information, go to www.mischadesigns.com/.

Your pimply teenage days may be long over, but your skin might still be susceptible to developing comedones, otherwise known as blackheads and whiteheads.

The stubborn clump of dirt can develop under any circumstance, but the oily-prone will find themselves battling this annoying piece of gunk even more. A collection of dirt and oil, blackheads are annoying as they don’t exactly have an “expiry date”. Unlike pimples which will eventually pop, blackheads often stay under the skin before becoming a pimple.

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Depending on your skin type, genes and skin care routine, removing and preventing blackheads may or may not be a walk in the park. The trick is to stick to a skincare routine that helps prevent them, and get your pores professionally cleaned every once in a while.

TIP ONE: PREVENT THE OIL
The reality is that no matter what you do, blackheads will always come back. Blackheads form when your skin’s sebum can’t flow out onto the skin, leaving it to be stuck and clogged in your pores. This is why you’ll always get blackheads: When a blackhead is removed, the continuous sebum production “ensures” that a new blackhead forms once again.

Since you can’t totally stop your sebum flow, using products that slow or control your skin’s production of oil will delay the blackhead forming process. Mattifying or water-based products work great, but if you really want to break down existing blackheads and prevent new ones from forming, look for products containing salicylic and glycolic Acid as these ingredients help unclog pores and shed dead skin cells.

Most salicylic and glycolic Acid products are made for acne-prone skin, which can be quite drying. Which is why I find DHC’s range of salicylic products pretty neat. The brand uses a two percent concentration of Salicylic Acid, which is enough to target my blackheads without drying out my skin completely.

TIP TWO: DEEP CLEANSE
Without trying to state the obvious, giving your skin a really good clean will help in the anti-blackhead campaign. Apart from scrubbing regularly, you may also want to start using a clay mask every week.

Clay masks work to draw out oily impurities stuck in your pores, and I’ve found that regular use helps in removing my blackheads, too.

TIP THREE: SQUEEZE WELL
If you really must extract them, learn how to squeeze your blackheads properly. The trick with removing blackheads is to ensure that your skin is in the right condition, as well as controlling the amount of pressure you use in removal.

To remove your blackheads without scarring, only extract them after a hot shower (or use a face steamer, if you have one). The heat from the bath will help soften the oil in your pores, making it easier for you to nudge it out. Then, with the aid of a tissue or cloth, position your forefingers across each other and leave a space of a five cent coin in between. A gap will ensure that you’re really pushing the blackhead out, and not just the surface of the skin (since blackheads are stuck deep within).

Start by nudging your skin in different directions, and if the blackheads don’t come out after a few rounds of trying: Stop. Squeezing too hard or in a wrong way might actually inflame the skin, introducing unwanted bacteria into your pores. What’s worse, you might actually break some capillaries or scar yourself along the way.

DHC Salicylic range is available at selected Watsons stores. For more information, visit www.dhccare.com and follow the brand on Facebook.

If you find it a hassle to put on sunscreen, Lush has made it easier. Its new Sunblock Solid Sunscreen Wash SPF30 (photo 1, $30, from Lush stores) is not only a bar of soap, but also a sunblock. Take a third of the bar, soap up in the shower and rinse.

The product contains calamine lotion, which is rich in zinc oxide - a natural broad-spectrum sunscreen. A third of this bar soap will provide enough protection for your entire body. The bar also moisturises skin with chamomile blue oil, rose absolute and cocoa butter.

You will, however, have to top up the sunscreen when you perspire. If you hate sticky lotions, try the Lush Powdered Sunshine SPF 15 ($25). It is made from powdered calamine, corn flour, sesame oil, lemon oil, lime oil and patchouli oil. Smooth the powder onto skin and touch up once every two hours for optimal protection.

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1 Be certain a problem really exists.
Because money is a taboo topic, don’t create an awkward situation by jumping to conclusions too quickly. Gather enough evidence first. “If there’s just one red flag, then I don’t think you should jump the gun and have a serious conversation about it,” says Anthony Saccaro, president of Providence Financial.

But he adds that since you probably know roughly what your loved one makes and spends, “you kind of know what financial position they’re in”. So if you feel that things aren’t adding up, don’t ignore your intuition.

2 See if they bring it up first.
“You have to listen to tip-offs – things that people say which warn you there could be a problem,” Anthony says. “If people mention something to the effect that they’re living cheque to cheque, or that they’re behind on their mortgage, or that they’re running up credit card debt, or if you’re inviting a friend to the movies and they don’t have the money to go, then that is a red flag.”

If they bring up money worries, it could be their way of asking for help. That opens the door for you to say something, says Jacquette Timmons, a financial behaviourist and the author of Financial Intimacy: How to Create a Healthy Relationship with Your Money and Your Mate.

3 Try reaching out.
“I would apply what I call the three-touch-point rule,” says Jacquette. “Make overtures to help out either through enquiries or sharing your own story.” The third time, be more direct, she suggests.

You could try saying: “I’ve noticed that you’ve been going out a lot and buying this and that. I have a good sense of how much you earn and what your overhead is, and I’m concerned you’re putting yourself in a bad situation. Is there anything I can do to help?” If they say no, just leave it at that, because if you keep pushing, you run the risk of that person shutting down.

4 Start with your own story.
If it seems your friend is ready to talk, then show that you empathise. “Talk about when you struggled financially yourself – say, ‘It wasn’t always like this for me’,” advises Anthony.

Jacquette suggests you also explain how you turned things around for yourself. You can tell them about your current habits or steps you’ve taken to get to your current situation. “I would share the top three things you do to stay on top of your own money. Share what you do that keeps you, on a day-to-day, week-to-week, month-to-month basis, in a healthy situation.”

5 Be clear that your intention is to help, not judge.
Tone is really important here. “It’s not what you ask so much as how you ask it,” says Anthony.

Adds Jacquette: “I think the issue is more about the intention behind it – are you doing it to help this person or because you’re coming from a space of, ‘I know it all, and you should be doing it this way’?”

6 Offer to be their accountability partner.
You can offer to help them get on the right path, says Jacquette. Set up a goal, schedule check-ins and commit to keeping them motivated. During your check-in, you could say: “You said you would do X and you didn’t do X. What’s going on?”

7 Determine whether help will be best received from yourself, another friend or family member, or a professional.
Sometimes you won’t be the best person to offer help. In those situations, consider whether your friend might be more open to receiving help from someone else.

Jacquette, for example, offers to act as a go-between for her friends with their children. “One of the things I’ve said to my friends with children is, ‘What do you want me to tell your child?’. They may not go to their parents but to their parents’ close friends, so I could pass along what my friends would want to tell them.”

If you decide the best person for your friend to talk with is a professional, refer him or her to someone. “Say ‘I know so-and-so’,” suggests Jacquette.

This article was originally published in Simply Her October 2014.